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Name: Alice
Birthday: 7/3/1986
Gender: Female
Interests: badminton, listening to music, bumming around, doing random things, cooking from a box, and my newfound hobby...READING?! come read a book wit me and then we can discuss!! lol, yea i'm a nerd
Occupation: Student
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AIM:  cheesecake7386
Member Since:
1/15/2003
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| i've created a new xanga...partly cuz i felt it was time for a change,
partly cuz i was getting sick of the "fashiondiva", but mostly cuz my
mom has developed the habit of regularly reading my xanga and i was
getting sick of filtering what i wrote.
neways, u'll find me somehow :)
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| bah, coffee does not work like at all. i downed a 12, maybe 16 oz cup of coffee...
and NOTHING!.
i ended up taking a 2 hour nap neways. 
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| sigh, i'm too tired to do ne work, and i have 30 min to kill before the bus comes...soooo, entry time!
one of my roommates brought up an interesting question the other night:
Can you ever be friends w/ you're ex?
She hypothesizes that the answer is no. Either you're
friends or you're lovers, you can never be both. you can be
acquaintences, but you can never be good friends. And if you
continue, or desire, to be "friends" its cuz you just can't let
go.
I, however, disagree. I think that if both people realize that
they just don't work in a relationship and have moved on,
friendship is totally possible. i mean, for me, personally, it
hurts a whole lot losing a boyfriend, but it also hurts a whole
lot losing a good friend. really, if you think
about it, if you never talk to ur ex's ever again, isn't that such a
waste? you spend so much time and energy getting to know
someone, making that connection...i mean, there are only a handful of
ppl in your lives that TRUELY know u, like really know
u...isn't it a shame to lose one of them/ have them not be in ur life
just because you couldn't make it work romantically? i think
that's silly
ionno, maybe its just me. i mean, you could break my heart in
a billion pieces, do me wrong in every way, and i'd still want to be ur
friend. lol. u may think that's pretty pathetic. i
guess i just have a harder time losing friends than i do boyfriends. | | |
| randomness:
~it saddens me how many scratchs are on the bumper of my civic from me bumping and other ppl bumping me when trying to parrallel park. its like a month old and its so scratched :( i hate parrallel parking
~i went shopping today. the first time in a long time. its wierd how i never know what's really popular or "trendy" when i'm at this school. its only when i get OUT of uofc and go shopping do i notice current trends.
~today, around 1pm, i was in my car outside my apt ready to head to naperville. and all of a sudden, these 2 african american guys started fighting...one of the guys grabed the other guy by the throat and slammed him onto the trunk of my car, while i was sitting in it. i was like omg  . of course i couldn't just drive off with them on my trunk, so i honked my horn a couple of times, hoping they'd get off my trunk. So the guy who was choking the other guy grabed his body and slammed it to the ground right behind my car. and again, i couldn't drive off cuz i had to back up first, and i couldn't back up with the 2 fighting on the ground right behind me. so i sat there for like 5 minutes waiting for them to stop fighting or at least move, and about this time, there appeared a bunch of cars around me kinda watching them fight. finally, i saw the 2 move their fight away from my car and so i was able to back up and drive away.
while driving away, i passed this car that was really nearby with these 2 african american guys standing outside of a car, kinda watching the fight. and while i passed, one of the guys kinda gave me an apologetic wave, like sorry they had to be fighting on top of ur car...but he was holding something discretly in his hand. and i think it looked alot like the handle of gun. i was glad to be outta there | | |
| story time:
So a friend came over last night and we watched Mr. and Mrs. Smith.
for those that have seen the movie, u kno the scene...where brad goes,
"How many?" and he says that he's had "50 to 60. it seems like
i've been around the block, but it's really not that many." and
angelina goes "322." and brad goes "how is that possible?!"
and she goes "sometimes it was 2 at a time."
so, ever since i've seen the movie, i've ALWAYS thought that they were talking about sexual partners.
and so my friend was like, no alice..its the number of pple they've killed.
and i'm like no! its not! and so we bet $10 on it.
and so we watched the scene over and over again, and nothing really
revealed wut they explicitly meant. and so my friend was like,
"alice! u can't possibly have 300 sexual partners! that's
disgusting!" and i was like, "well, yea, its alot. but its
angelina joli! she's GORGEOUS. and she's obviously very
sexual. if she WANTs to have that many partners, then she can!"
we decided that in order to determine who's right, we'd go around
asking pple and see statistically what the right answer was.
and so i lost. i guess they really were talking about how many pple they've killed.
now my friend thinks i have a sick mind. and i think he's a
mysognist who still upholds archaic social gender roles.  | | |
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